Love.
Love Marriage.
Marriage.
..............
Yup, I was in love. Yup I got lucky. Yup I got to marry the one I loved I chose.
I was madly in love.
Nope, there was no drama despite the differences..the ride was smooth.
And then reality begins. Life started. I thought I had problems. I thought my life was miserable. Poor me!
Just cos my dad wouldn't allow me to stay at a friend's place... I thought my life was a mess.
Yes, of course, I had some idea of the real-world problem and that gave me the confidence to believe that my life was bad/miserable..and everything in that sense applied here.
But you know how we always get to hear it from our parents "badey hogey tab pata chalega"..
Adults were then trying to hint that shit is pretty bad out there.
And turns out it's true.
Coming back to point.
Married life.
I want my money back. Well, not the money I busted on the weeding but in general..is there a way to undo this? No not like divorce. But like I don't like this product amazon..pls take it back.
I mean I don't want the scars courts and some aunty counseling me after watching Thapad movie and telling me "beta thoda jyada hogya, yeah sab toh chalta hai".
No not like that.
Just to be clear..my guy is a good guy. He's kind. He's handsome and he makes me skip a beat. I'm glad I have him. TW
But married life is a fucking pain man. Living with in-laws is definitely a bigger one.
Again, my in-laws are good people by the book. I swear. They are also kind and accommodating.
However, living together....
God, they don't know me and I guess I don't want them to.
I'm a weird mix of intro-extro. I'm still learning about myself. About what I like and what I don't. It was so much easier with my parents.
It's much easier to slam a door on your own parents' face and be okay the next morning but how am I supposed to have that someone else's parents. I mean it took me many years of rejections of my brilliant ideas..my parents earned it from me...the slamming door.
How and how..I'm 34 and I have a kid and of course, Im married and Im living with my in-laws..wtf..right!
I know!
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Yes, I was head over heels in love. Yes, I was fortunate. Yes, I was able to marry the person I adored.
I was head over heels in love.
Despite the changes, there was no drama...the travel was easy.
Then reality sets in. The journey of life began. I thought I was having issues. My life seemed hopeless to me. Oh, how I pity myself!
I believed my life was a shambles because my father wouldn't let me stay at a friend's apartment.
Of course, I had some understanding of the real-world issue, which gave me the confidence to feel that my life was bad/miserable...and everything in that sense applied here.
I was head over heels in love.
Despite the changes, there was no drama...the travel was easy.
Then reality sets in. The journey of life began. I thought I was having issues. My life seemed hopeless to me. Oh, how I pity myself!
I believed my life was a shambles because my father wouldn't let me stay at a friend's apartment.
Of course, I had some understanding of the real-world issue, which gave me the confidence to feel that my life was bad/miserable...and everything in that sense applied here.
But you know how we always get to hear it from our parents "badey hogey tab pata chalega"..
Adults were then attempting to imply that things were becoming fairly nasty out there. And that turns out to be correct.
Returning to the original point.
Life as a married couple
I'd like a refund of my funds. Is there any way to undo this? Not the money I lost on the wedding, but in general...is there any way to undo this? No, not in the same way that divorce is. But, because I don't like this product, Amazon, please return it to me.
Returning to the original point.
Life as a married couple
I'd like a refund of my funds. Is there any way to undo this? Not the money I lost on the wedding, but in general...is there any way to undo this? No, not in the same way that divorce is. But, because I don't like this product, Amazon, please return it to me.
mean I don't want the scars courts and some aunty counseling me after watching Thapad movie and telling me "beta thoda jyada hogya, yeah sab toh chalta hai".
No not like that.
Just to be clear..my guy is a good guy. He's kind. He's handsome and he makes me skip a beat. I'm glad I have him. TW
But married life is a fucking pain man. Living with in-laws is definitely a bigger one.
Again, my in-laws are good people by the book. I swear. They are also kind and accommodating.
However, living together...
God, they don't know me and I guess I don't want them to.
I'm a weird mix of intro-extro. I'm still learning about myself. About what I like and what I don't. It was so much easier with my parents.
It's much easier to slam a door on your own parents' face and be okay the next morning but how am I supposed to have that someone else's parents. I mean it took me many years of rejections of my brilliant ideas..my parents earned it from me...the slamming door.
How and how..I'm 34 and I have a kid and of course, I'm married and Im living with my in-laws..wtf..right!
I know!
